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How to set parental controls on devices bought for kids
Turn on the downtime and purchase approval already in the parent account, and tell the child. Do not install a bypass, change DNS to dodge a filter, or keep a stranger’s account.
Set parental controls from the parent account the device already expects, using the menus on the device or the family page you type yourself. Turn on the downtime and the purchase approval you can see. This page does not explain how to remove those controls, how to skip screen-time, or how to hide an app from the parent account. A device that is locked to someone else’s account goes back.
Step 1: Start from the parent account
- Sign in as the parent, on the site or the settings page the device maker shows in the box. Type that address. Do not follow a “family setup” text.
- Add the child’s device with the code the parent device displays. Read the code yourself. Do not read it to a caller.
- If the device asks for an account you do not control, stop. A used tablet tied to a stranger is a return: used electronics.
Passwords for the parent account belong in the manager: password manager setup. Shopping links that are not the store are phishing after shopping.
Step 2: Use the switches the menu already has
Turn on downtime, app approval, and purchase approval if those rows exist. Leave them on. You do not need a third-party “unlock” app, and you should not install one. If a guide, a video, or the child asks for a bypass, the answer is the menu you already set, reviewed together. This page will not list steps that turn the controls off in secret.
Leave disk encryption on if the device has it. Leave the firewall on for any computer in the house. Do not change DNS to reach a site the filter blocked. A filter you chose stays until you change it on purpose, in the parent account, with the child if that is your household’s rule. Do not disable antivirus to install a game.
The Wi-Fi password is not the parent password. Guests get a guest network if you want them online: guest Wi-Fi. They do not get a card with the parent login.
Step 3: Purchases and photos stay in the family you named
Require the parent password for a purchase. Do not store the card on the child’s profile if the menu lets you keep it off. Do not photograph the card “for the kid’s account.” A serial number note is separate and private: serial numbers.
Cameras and shares: do not post the child’s face to a public product review. A doorbell or a tablet camera is not a way to watch them secretly. If a device is for a child, the child should know what it can do. Hidden monitoring is not a setup step.
Updates come from the device’s own menu: firmware updates. Do not sideload a store from a search ad. Do not jailbreak the device to add a control the maker did not include. If the control you need is not in the menu, choose a different device or skip the feature. Do not go looking for a workaround.
Step 4: Say what you turned on
Tell the child which hours the device will pause and that a purchase will ask you. Write nothing about a secret. A control the household does not understand will get “fixed” by a stranger’s video. If that video says to turn developer options on or to install a profile you did not create, close it.
The charger is a normal one for that device, watched the first time, not a heater and not an unknown brick: counterfeit chargers. When the setup is done, the parent device locks. The return window on the order still applies if the family menu never appeared.
Test the settings together
From the child profile, try one allowed app, one blocked app and a test purchase request. Check that the approval arrives on the parent device and that essential calling or emergency access works as intended. Review age ratings, web filters, location sharing and who can contact the child; controls differ by operating system, age and region. Filters can miss content, so revisit the settings with the child and keep an open way to report upsetting material.
What you should be able to point at
- Parent account signed in from a page you typed. Child device added with a code you did not read to a caller.
- Downtime and purchase approval on, if the menu has them. No bypass app. No jailbreak.
- Encryption, antivirus, and the firewall left on. DNS unchanged.
- Card not stored on the child’s profile if you can avoid it. No public post of the child.
- The child told what is on. A device with a stranger’s account returned.
Example: downtime on, the video closed
The tablet is new and asks for a family account. The parent types the maker’s family page, creates the parent login in the manager, and adds the tablet with the code on the parent phone. They turn on downtime for school nights and require a password for purchases. They tell the child both things. A video titled “remove this in one minute” is closed. They do not open developer options. They do not change DNS. The child’s profile has no card saved. The charger is the one from the box, on a normal outlet, and it stays cool. The parent phone locks when they leave the room. If the family page had never offered a control, they would have returned the tablet inside the printed window rather than install a profile from a forum. Nobody reads a sign-in code to a caller who claims to be support.
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Last updated: October 29, 2026
Last reviewed October 22, 2026. Suggest a correction
Questions readers ask
A video shows how to turn the limits off without the parent password. Should we follow it so we understand?
No. Close it. Set the limits in the parent account and tell the child what you turned on. This page does not explain a bypass. Do not install a profile or a helper from that video.
The used tablet is cheaper if we can clear the last family’s account. Can we?
Only if the seller removes it while you watch. If they cannot, walk away. Do not buy a device you cannot put your own parent account on. Do not look up a bypass.
Can we change DNS so homework sites load around the filter?
No. Leave DNS as it is. If a site should be allowed, change that in the parent account on purpose. Do not disable the firewall or antivirus. A filter is not a puzzle to route around.
Should the card live on the child’s profile so gifts are easier?
Keep purchases behind the parent password. Do not store the card on the child’s profile if the menu allows you to leave it off. Do not photograph the card. Do not put the parent password on a sticky note on the device.
The device has no family menu. Can a third-party app add one?
Do not add an app that promises to override the system. If the control is not in the maker’s menu, pick a different device or skip the feature. Use the return date on the order if the listing promised a control the device does not have.
Sources and methodology
Claims that depend on an outside authority are tied to the references below. Product details change. Confirm the current specification sheet before you buy or install anything.
- Apple Support: Set Up Parental Controls — Apple (manufacturer), accessed October 29, 2026. Documents child account, Screen Time and purchase controls on Apple devices.
Information on this site is for general educational purposes and is not professional advice.
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